So the perfect woman should look like this.
When they get older and more mature they look for a women who is their partner, someone they can stick around...
...and who brings them their beer.
And when the end draws near, they look for...
A hot nurse! ( what else?).
More specific preferences are left to individual choice. Although the feelings who we like or not are not very much conscious, the FIRST THING you should do is to figure out what do you want for yourself. By that I don't mean I want Jozica Novak from Spodnji duplek! Or I want a hot brown babe with perfect face, godly silhuette and rich parents... So, take a few minutes, close your eyes and imagne yourself in a desirable situation(s) with a girl ( if all you can think is having this hottie in bed then solve your hormones problem yourself!). Focus on basic ideas like is she dominant, how smart is she, is she friendly, sharp what does her face look like, what does she like doing... and then try to imagne how you would feel by being with her. Quickly you will see that you already have a subconscious ( blurry) image of what you desire. Follow the outline that exists in your head. And yes, I can hear you say you can't choose who you will fall in love with... that may be true, but it is more likely to happen if the person fits your idea of the chick you are looking for. Maybe you'll even have less problems in the future if you happen to get in a relationship.
By determining what kind of a chick / outcome for yourself you want you become more goal determined and that leads to higher motivation so you won't hesitate to take her number or ask her out...because you will be doing what is in your intrest and won't have so many secon thoughts.
If you know what you want, you are definetly more attractive to these chicks... and on a good way to improve your love life.
3 comments:
The Cosmo and Men's health readers are loosing a lot with you and Spela not planning to become their reporters. :)
Jure!
NEVER EVER!!!!!!! do that. Never go looking for someone based on a preIMAGINED picture in your head. Women are not like cars (as you've allready stated once) you can't choose one based on points you have on your checklist. It doesn't work that way. There must be a spark, some chemistry, a mistery force mightier and older than the univers itself that will make the "chick" right for you. In short you must simply conect and feel good about it. Yes it helps if she is "all that" but if you are gonna go looking for someone that has all that (that you are not trully even sure it you want "all that") you are gonna be loosing out. And you might just pass the best in search for your false pretense idol. Matters of the hart are far too complex for the mind to understand and therefore should not be approched reason and logic but with great sense of adventure, opportunity and above all an open mind! At least that's my advice as i've found out true "chicks" are found whan least expected.
Matija!
I never will or would! I wrote this post based on this premisis: When there is enough attraction, chemistry, mistery force... between two individuals, no logic or reasoining can/could deterr them from being together. (thanks for showing me it isn't really obvious at the first glance).
The problem I see is that many men ( including me sometimes ) often don't even interact with women (go for it) on an appropriate level to get this chemistry started and build in something more, because they aren't sure if they want something at all. It is far easier to go through life just looking for one night stands...and not wory about all relationship obligations. They do often forget the advantages of a good relationship.
And this excersise was meant more to encourage minds to think about it with another perspective.
Thanks for the thinker, I'll probably change the words a bit.
PS: women are definetly not like cars! I never will write that, because in the long run, cars are much, much cheaper :) .
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