in a sexy, flirty, jet not too intrusive manner. ( or he will run!) Is the answer to a question presented to me by a good friend of mine (Female!): How do I tell Him that I like him? After a "thorough male analysis" the upper answer seems the best way! Here is why other alternatives suck:
- Just saying I like you and will you be my boyfriend, is a very bad idea, because if it didn't work in primary school, it probably won't work now. There are only two possible reactions: 1. The guy will more or less politely talk out of it, and even if he liked the girl before, he will have to talk himself out of it because, he just found out she is a freak 2. "Go with me, meet my parents, marry me, have kids with me, and lets be happy forever and ever" - and if this didn't send chills up your spine, I wish you a happy marriage!
- Being very flirty, looking him straight in the eyes, winking, playing with hair, touching breasts, laughing at his stupid jokes... and all the other stuff women try to do to look as attractive and interested as possible. Well, all these things may be nice, but are usually not enough to get the message across. Sorry, it just isn't as obvious for us guys! And you do want to tell Him something don't you?
- Asking his friend to ask him and tell you... won't work either, because firstly the guys will go have a beer and it is quite common that certain topics are forgotten due to them being very unmanly. Secondly, by doing that a girl isn't far from primary school be my boyfriend thing.
- Having wild sex with him ( drunk or sober is a personal choice)... will probably mean a girl will have fun, but won't get into the desired category in His head. But if you like to be a mistress, be forward and have lots of fun!
- Going for it and trying to kiss him... No, no, no... you like Him right? So for crying out loud, give him at least one chance at being a man! Let him do things as they should be - a boy kisses a girl. Takes the chances... Don't start turning him into a slipper before you two are in a romantic relationship! Or it really won't last.
My analysis lacks other ideas, but the point is simple: Girls, use your sexy, playful body language for what it was intended. Don't over do it ( point 4) , but make sure you get the message across. There is nothing to lose, because in the "worst case scenario" the guy will feel complimented!
Anyway, If I won't like my job I will go and writte for cosmo.